Prevent It
Speak Up: Ending Hazing Starts with You
Hazing thrives in secrecy, but you have the power to disrupt it. The first step is recognizing when something isn't right and having the courage to call it out.
Ask Questions – Be Direct
If you see something questionable, don't ignore it–ask. A simple conversation could make a huge difference.
- "Hey, you missed last night's meeting. You seem exhausted–are you okay?"
- "That outfit looks unusual for you. Did someone make you wear it?"
- "Your grades dropped, and you haven't turned in homework. What's going on?"
- "You have bruises–did someone hurt you?"
- "Where did that symbol on your skin come from? Were you branded?"
- "We haven't seen you in weeks. Are you being pressured to isolate?"
- "People are calling you a harsh nickname. Are you comfortable with that?"
These conversations will feel different depending on the situation, and people are more likely to open up if they trust you. Even if someone insists they aren't being hazed, remember–hazing can happen with or without consent.
Use Your Voice
The more people who recognize hazing and speak up, the harder it is for it to continue. If something feels off, trust your instincts and start the conversation. Your words could be the difference between someone staying silent or getting help.
Together, we can end hazing for good.